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About sharing Some names have been changed. Picture posed by models Dating can often be fraught with uncertainty and self-consciousness. For those with incurable sexually transmitted infections STIsare tailored websites the answer for people nervous of telling potential partners about their condition?

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The past decade has witnessed the growth of niche dating websites - from Amish to Zombie enthusiasts yerpes but a particularly burgeoning sector has been the proliferation of STI dating websites. Now there are so many, there are Top 10 lists.

Many have taglines such as "Stay positive! In fact, it's a whole new start," it says on H-YPE. Others, such as PositiveSingles - which has 30, members herpds the UK, accumulating herpes chat rooms, new members last year worldwide - and DatePositive, which has more than 6, profiles, allow users to search for people with almost any sexually transmitted infection. Typically you age and sexual preference, details you'd add on any mainstream dating site.

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Then you can search for people with a specific sexually transmitted infection. The rise in these dating sites coincides with increasing rates of STIs.

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It means that entering the dating world with an STI is a reality for many. And the stigma can make it a daunting prospect. Kate, 36, from Manchester, who has herpes, thinks the stigma attached to STIs also means "people assume you've slept around".

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It belies the fact that many people contract STIs from long-term partners - with some people only discovering they've contracted one at the same time they find out their partner has been unfaithful. For many, the thought of telling a new partner about their STI is terrifying.

Many feel there's no "right time" to have the talk. Too late, and there's the risk of incurring anger or losing trust. Too early, and the person may cut their losses before even getting to know you.

Kate recalls how a promising relationship was ruined by the disclosure of her herpes. It broke us.

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He didn't want to take any chances. Even when you're let down politely, it affects you. It makes you realise that you are a bit different," says year-old Londoner Mark, who has had both herpes and HPV for more than 20 years.

Against this backdrop, it's easy to understand the success of STI dating websites. On most sites, users can write as much or as little about their condition as they like.

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romos Putting all the information upfront "brings it back to the basics of a relationship And there is a feeling that some provide more than a mainstream dating site, offering support networks and a sense of community. There are often online counsellors, people can share their experiences in blog posts and some have events.

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However, some people are wary of the message STI dating websites could send. Herpes chat rooms director Marian Nicholson believes that some sites perpetuate the negative stigma surrounding herpes. This is completely out of touch with the reality of living with a condition like herpes, she says. For most people, it barely affects their lives, while many others do not even know they have it.

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Similarly HPV often only causes one outbreak of genital warts despite technically being incurable, says sexual health physician Dr Mark Pakianathan. Even H-YPE founder Max agrees that the sites contribute to the stigma, although herpes chat rooms calls it a "necessary evil" because the stigma exists regardless. There's also the suggestion that these sites can give the false impression that just because you have the same STI, unprotected sex is safe.

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And there are more strains of HPV, of which more than 30 affect the genital area. Of course plenty of people with STIs find love with non-infected partners. Despite ing an STI dating site, Kate says she kept her profiles on herpes chat rooms dating websites, clearly stating her herpes condition. Although she received the odd abusive message, it's where she met her current partner. If they have a problem they can self-select out," she says.

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chst Even face-to-face talks need not be the source of anxiety. It's about re-educating people [and] making it normalised," Max says. As long as there is stigma in mainstream society, STI dating websites will seemingly continue to serve a purpose to those who wish to avoid such scenarios.

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